Where she got into an traffic accident and was killed.
Li Jun and his wife Zhao Xue were married nine years ago. He knew that she had a history of mental illness but they decided to get married anyway.
Later on, she became too unstable. When she got pregnant, he had her committed to an institution so that she wouldn’t do harm to their child. A few years pass and Li Jun still doesn’t have the means (economic or otherwise) to deal with her and so places her in a “pig cage” and feeds her a couple of times a day.
He meets another woman: they fall in love and he wants to divorce his wife to be with the new woman. The trouble is that you’ve got a person suffering from mental illness, you need to get their legally appointed representative to make that decision and sign that paper — in this case, his wife’s little sister. However the little sister had always been recalcitrant in this manner and even pretended to “disappear” so that Li Jun wouldn’t be able to find her. At wit’s end, Li decided, along with his father, to leave his wife by the side of the road. He put the little sister’s number on a piece of paper hung around his wife’s neck. He told her was going to buy something to eat and then left.
After a few days, they started getting nervous: no word of Zhao Xue, no calls from Zhao’s sister. Finally they contacted the police, filed a missing persons, and learned that on the very day he left his wife, that there was a traffic accident. A woman was killed and her body had not been identified. Father and son Li confessed to the crime, which in China lessens the sentence. They may just do one year in jail for their crime.
How much time they might do in hell for their sins is another matter.
“How much time they might do in hell for their sins is another matter’ …..
From the story I read above it looks like he was already in hell. He put up with a lot, did the best he could, his hands were tied, I am on his side totally on this one. He did not mean to harm her, he had NO OTHER OPTIONS and was more likely than not suffering from caregiver burnout. Show your love and help the man, please don’t judge him harshly. I honestly feel it was an accident a horriable tradigy but if I try to imagine my self as him, I can see where he is coming from.
What do you mean he had no other options! His options were to stay with her, take on more jobs, not cheat, take care of her and don’t leave her out for dead!!! I just gave 5 options. Isn’t that what a husband is suppose to do! The option he chose was to be a coward!And not the provider and protector. The easy way out is never a happy ending.
Men don’t have the capability of nurturing…after awhile the wife became a pest and he put her in a pig cage and later, left her on the side of busy traffic. It’s also sad that her own family didn’t want anything to do with her. Basically, he punked himself into thinking he was doing the right thing by marrying her, but didn’t realized what the long haul would bring. People think that love is blind, but marriage is an eye opener.
What a selfish act! Most women always stay by their disabled husband or children…some men wait it out until their emotions run thin and their heart is somewhere else. Men are selfish by nature. It’s been proven that men lack the nurturing ability that women have.
I read an article about how women go to the gynecologist about ovarian cancer and their husbands don’t accompany them, but when the men have prostate cancer…their wives are in the doctor’s office going over details on how to care for their husbands. So sad.
I have a family member who’s disabled and her husband is wanting to leave because he said that he can’t do it anymore and wants to live his life. And that he’s done living it for someone else. People think marriage is just gonna be all fun and a picnic. It’s some serious crap! You’re messing with someone’s heart and mind…marriages are being tested everyday.
Being married to someone disabled is mentally frustrating and it’s important of have God in life to prevent people from doing things they will regret. For example, this loser who cheated, wished for her dead and his dreams came true.