OK, so you might be wondering why I am reading an essay from the women’s section at 163.com, because that is SO NOT MY GENRE. But i was drawn to the title: “how should i deal with my husband’s many lovers”. At first I thought this meant a hubbie that was into menage a trois [...]
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Movies I’m Watching: Nagisa Oshima’s Pleasures of the Flesh (Etsuraku)
Friday, 19 September 2008
I haven’t watched too many Oshima films but judging from Etsuraku (I really dig his style, especially the cinematography. There’s just something about the film stock that they used over there in the 1960s – plus Oshima loves nothing more than a dark and moody palette where faces and body parts are outlined in a [...]
Movies I’m Watching: Les Valseuses
Friday, 19 September 2008
I actually watched this a couple of weeks ago but never got the chance to write about it: There’s a Channel4.com review which sums it up nicely:
For Blier, the surreal agent provocateur who would make a career out of winding up the bourgeoisie, the film’s male aggression, absurd black humour and absence of any [...]
Chinese MBA marriage meetups
Monday, 15 September 2008
MBA相亲会数百人参加 女性怨男性“素质低”(图)_网易新闻中心 via kwout
Hmmm it seems that kwout is having problems with Chinese character encodings…oh well. The link is to an article about a marriage, dating meetup that paired some highly-educated lasses with some not so tall men. Some men complained that they were afraid of women who were too well-educated, saying that they were [...]
If I’m not doing it for you, please feel your own breasts
Friday, 29 August 2008
Spurred by the possibility of some hot pictures, I clicked on the link to a Chinese article about the pleasures of sex without penetration.* The article talks about we often place too much emphasis on genitals and penetration, oblivious of the body’s other erogenous zones, ignorant of the polymorphous pleasures that we’d unlearned in the [...]
Hung like a horse South African squirrel
Monday, 18 August 2008
New Scientist Short Sharp Science Blog: South African squirrels: well-endowed via kwout
There is intense sexual competition among males in the South African squirrel population. They leave their semen in and around the females to make sure that other males don’t try to impregnate them. And they use these monster cocks to get the job done.
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Lonely Nanjing Man: is that an eel in your penis or are you just sexually frustrated?
Tuesday, 12 August 2008
First of all, I swear I wasn’t googling Nanjing+penis when I stumbled up on this article from just a few weeks ago about a strange incident involving a lonely man, his schlong, and an eel. Thirty-year old Wang recently found himself feeling a bit lonely one night and grabbed one of the eels he (or [...]
Movies I’m Watching: Harold and Kumar Escape From Guantanamo Bay
Sunday, 3 August 2008
Let me say that I am big fan of the Harold and Kumar enterprise, if only b/c yes, it is nice having some non-white, and not especially handsome boys as the leads. The same dynamic and humor is there, John Cho being the uptight choad and Kumar getting all the gross-out jokes. I have to [...]
Movies I’m Watching:Straw Dogs
Saturday, 2 August 2008
Violence, in most movies, is pretty standard—you get shot in the face by Scarface, your neck broken by Steven Seagall, or eaten alive by sharks. How many time have you seen a man thrash about as he is nearly decapitated by a bear trap? That’s Straw Dogs, a movie that must have been much more [...]
Sex and the Party: Is China ready for a nude island?
Saturday, 26 July 2008
The sexologist Pan Hai has called for one of the idyllic islands off Zhuhai–Miao Wan Island–to be turned into a nude island. The blog post, written on July 15, is titled 中国应有裸泳海滩 (China ought to have a nude beach) and lays out some of Pan’s reasons he believes it’s about time for China’s own nude [...]